What to say: loss and change

The sheet

Eight first sentences, each from a quick tip in the library, with a line on when to say it.

Cards to cut out · A4, eight cards to cut · One page · PDF, 61 KB

How it helps

When something is lost or changing, such as a pet, a grandparent, a job or a home, it’s hard to know where to start. Each card has a first sentence, from a quick tip in the library, to start with, and a line on when to say it.

How to use it

1. Cut out the eight cards. Each names the quick tip it comes from, which has the rest.
2. Choose the one that fits what’s happening now, and read its tip before you say it.
3. Say the sentence in your own voice, at the time the line beneath it suggests.
4. Expect the questions to come back, sometimes weeks later, and answer them again.

How to get this sheet

This sheet comes with a subscription. It is also yours if a teacher or therapist sends it to you. School staff and therapists signed in to their shelf can print it too.

Free to print

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